Anger and violent
conflicts in the
workplace has become
one of Corporate
America's biggest
problems. In a
recent Gallup poll,
two out of every ten
employees confessed
to being angry
enough to "hurt"
some co-worker in
the last six months!
Indeed, every day,
literally thousands
of employees are
killing and maiming
each other as a
result of their mis-managed
and uncontrolled
anger and rage. Many
more thousands of
"innocent"
by-standers/co-workers
are also being hurt
or killed in the
process. Too many
managers and bosses
are losing their
lives each year
because of the angry
and violent actions
of disgruntled
employees. Make no
mistake about it,
the modern workplace
of today is
dangerous and
becoming
increasingly more
violent and you can
easily be hurt or
even lose your life
if you don't know
how to manage your
anger and the anger
of your co-workers.
Anger
Management Classes &
Anger Programs
Much of the problem
contributing to the
epidemic anger and
violence occurring
in the workplace is
that many people
have attitudes about
themselves, about
others and about
life which
predispose them to
behave in ways that
are irrational and
disrespecting
towards others. Such
persons are
"culturally
incompetent" and are
not "sensitive" to
other people
"feelings" ways of
seeing, doing and
understanding
things. They lack
"insight" about
other people
beliefs, values and
practices and are
unable to "dialogue"
about their
differences. And
when conflicts
arise, their lack of
"insight" and
cultural competence
makes positive
cooperation
difficult and
sometimes, even
impossible. This
kind of cultural
"narrow-mindedness"
is then perceived as
disrespect by others
and triggers their
anger (rage) and its
violent
consequences.
Anger Management
Classes & Anger
Programs
I have found that
most of the
inter-employee
problems,
manager/employee
problems and violent
conflicts on the
job, arise out of
this negative
context of cultural
ignorance.
When co-workers, managers and employees learn how to make the transition from their mistaken or uninformed attitudes and expectations of others to more appropriate ones, their lives at work take on new meaning and purpose. They become capable of cooperating with each other as equal members of society. As employees, they become more efficient and productive at their job. They stop insulting and putting each other down and start helping each other up. They are moved into a relationship of mutual respect.
Anger Management
Classes & Anger
Programs
Mutual respect can
be defined as a
state in which two
(or more)
individuals respect
themselves and each
other in spite of
their differences,
faults and
imperfections.
Anger Management
Classes & Anger
Programs
In the context of
mutual respect, each
employee"™s feelings
of self respect and
sense of worth and
value is enhanced.
Of course, this does
not mean
"compromising" with
any legitimate
expectations based
on each employee
respective role and
job function. But it
does mean
"respecting" the
other person
"humanity" in spite
of his professional
shortcomings,
cultural differences
or lack of
competence. Even
when the other
person makes it very
difficult for us to
respect them by
making useless
"anger mischief," we
can still disengage
from their
inappropriate or
unprofessional
behavior and respect
them in spite of it!
He (she) will not
cooperate with us
until, and unless we
do. Leonard Ingram
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